Remember when I said my ex all of a sudden became religious.... Update
My life has turned upside down so much and I keep waking up thinking I'm gonna wake up from a sick dream. If you haven't followed my post, I found out that my husband sexually abused his brother when he was 16 and his brother was 9. It didn't stop until his brother went away to college at 18 and my husband was 25. Full grown adult. When confronted he just put all blame on his brother. Gaslit us. Him and his mom and family ganged up on his brother for trying to ruin his brother's life and saying it happened a long time ago. It was bad. I can not be with a rapist and pedophile or anything like that as i was sexuallly abused as a child. I divorced him. He tried to use me being a cam girl before I even met him to get custody of the kids. He gets supervised visitation. I posted about him all of a sudden becoming religious because he was making tiktoks about finding God and saying how he doesn't owe anyone an apology. Only God. Basically he doesn't have to apologize to his brother for anything because only God matters. He was also getting his pastor to write him a letter to try to get split custody of the kids and my mom was watching his tiktoks and saving them for evidence that he isn't remorseful. Now we are going to court for a completely different reason.
He has not seen his kids in a month. Not my doing. He would keep missing visitation because he's doing stuff with his church or making content spreading the word. My mom again does keep track of his tiktoks and my ex has gone off the deep end. Because now a long with his Christian content, he's making red pill content. What red pill content is, is think Andrew Tate. Misogynistic, alpha male, women bad, men oppressed type stuff. My mom knows I don't want to see his stuff but she told me he has talked about ME! He said online that if he ever remarried it would be a god loving woman and how he tried to get me to get saved and repent for being a "prostitute" but I refused. How TF are you gonna be a child molester/rapist and judge anybody. My mom has documented everything. Including him saying he has issues with sexual assault laws and how they discriminate against people's religion because the Bible says a woman must honor her husband. Which his brother .. is male... But he is saying that marital rape isn't a thing in Christianity. He's also defended Andrew Tate and the sex trafficking stuff. And apparently some of his followers he's met in real life and some moved into his apartment (I have the house). So he hasn't seen his kids in a month to run a cult basically. I don't understand how you can go from Christian content to red pill shit. My mom has sent me all the troubling things he's said and I've documented all his missed visitations. My kids are in therapy as it's been hard to explain everything with their father to them. I still talk to my BIL daily to make sure he's okay. I don't understand how someone so in the wrong. Who could simply say "I'm sorry," instead decides to do this weird shit. And then publicly shame the mother of his kids not even acknowledging the horrid things he's done. What's worse is red pill content is very popular sadly and I have had a few men in my inbox telling me awful things. About being a whore. I'm keeping his kids from him. I'm going hell. I should be raped. And with going on their social media at least one of the men I've gotten a message from lives with him. I'm hoping I have enough evidence to maybe get his rights terminated. He has chosen not to see his children for a month to do this weird ass shit. Thank you guys for all the support I've reviewed through this. I've tried to give the same support to my BIL. Wish me luck in court
Edit: Robin red pill content isn't about the truth. It's about conspiracy theories along with hating women and downplaying rape. It's not about THE truth it's about THEIR truth which is very scary. Half the men who make this content don't even believe depression is real so nothing they say is about "the truth". Regardless on how you feel about red pill content it still doesn't take away that my ex hasn't seen his children in a month to start a cult. And seems to be blaming me for why he hasn't seen our kids
@Robin I hate men? That's why I've done nothing besides support my BIL through all of this? I have both publicly and privately supported him through this and been there for him. I don't hate men. I hate rapist. And 1. I don't worship any God. I don't do religion in general. And 2. Yeah we've all done bad things. Not all of us have raped people. Especially children. Also considering he and his friends are harassing me calling me a whore, and has said marital rape should basically be descriminalized, I don't think he's really into chivalry. And what you have failed to understand the problem is, he has not seen his own children and has failed to show up to visitation for this cult. The fact that you called him my "friend" when I said he's my ex husband means you probably didn't read my post properly anyway.
Update: My ex did not show up to court during the week. So the termination of rights process is getting started. It's not an overnight thing so while I process is getting started I'll collect more evidence. I'm keeping track of the missed visitation, my mom is keeping track of his posts because I can't listen to his nonsense.
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