When do I ask who his biological mom is?

Question

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months. I've met his parents and his parents are in a poly relationship. He has two mom's and one dad. Obviously I know who his dad but but I just didn't know how to ask who is biologically his mom without making it weird. He clearly loves them all and I feel like me asking would be diminishing the nonbiological parent. We've been together 3 months now. How long should we be together and how should I ask?

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I think once you are very comfortable with each other, it would be OK to ask. My parents were never in a poly relationship, but I do have two dads. People ask me all the time which one is my biological father. There's nothing to be offended by IMO. I think it's just a natural question that people are curious about and when you're getting to know each other, it shouldn't be a big deal. However, I don't think you can really put a timeframe on it. I think you will know when you get to that point of being close enough to ask.

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You don’t.  It has no relevance to your relationship.

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I think as you get to know his family, it will naturally just come up in conversation.

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You dont ask. Let him tell you. Its only been 3 months. Give him some time to get to know you more.

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I wouldn’t ask. He’ll tell you more when he feels ready.

When do I ask who his biological mom is?

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