He wants to have sex all the time.

My man is horny all the time. Don’t get me wrong, I like that he wants me that much but I’m not in the mood as often as he is. He also wants it in the afternoons or mornings a lot, and I feel that’s the time I have to be productive. I don’t want to reject him but I also can’t all the time. Idk what to dooooo. I want him, I am just not horny like he is 24/7, so he ends up feeling like I’m ignoring or rejecting him or don’t want him at all. We have talked about this. He knows how I feel but it continues being an issue. Idk if anyone has advice on how to go about this, because it is getting to a point of bad attitudes from both of us. And we do have sex. I said I was down for every other day, and last time we did two days in a row. Although it is true, that it is always at night, when I am down for it. He claims that it can’t only go my way which I understand, because at nights he usually ends up going to sleep later and then wakes up kinda tired for work. But even if we were to go to bed slightly earlier. Most likely he will come from work the next day full on horny, when I’m still trying to be productive and it will end up feeling like a rejection with bad attitudes. Advice please 😔

Update:

Btw, he doesn’t push it when I say no, or has ever pressured me into anything. I think it is important for me to clarify that. He just gets disappointed and feels rejected on a constant basis because of it. I don’t want him to feel this way. I don’t want him to feel like he is not loved or that I don’t want him sexually because of it. Lately he has been feeling like I don’t want that sort of connection. He expressed it not long ago saying that I mostly want him as a friend and just enjoy spending time with him. I clarified this for him. Have in mind we have been together for over 8 years and are getting married in a month. I think he is going through some sort of emotional phase, and me rejecting the sex makes him feel like all those thoughts he has been having are real, when they re not. I’m trying to find the best way for him to stop feeling this way. I have talked to him multiple times about it but obviously actions speak louder than words, and my actions are not been horny so often, which doesn’t help 🙄.