I think I need to vent

I have been in a loving relationship going on 7 years. I love my partner and we’re planning our wedding.

Here’s my concern: Our sex life is definitely lacking. When we actually do hav sex, it’s great but it’s also like…once a month.

I’ve discussed my concerns, and he said that he just doesn’t think about sex very often. He has a pretty low sex drive and just doesn’t think about it.

I know he has a low sex drive, but it feels like he’s just not attracted to me. When our relationship was new, you couldn’t keep us off each other and now I just feel like a chore. What do I do? I don’t want to bring it up again because I feel like I’m nagging.