Am I weird?

Question

Hi I’m alyssa I’m new to this but I see how all of you guys are so open and it’s inspiring me to open up! I’m 21 years old female and I know I have a very low libido, I just can’t shake this feeling that I’m not “normal” if yk what I mean? I just feel weird and left out in sex talks. I do have a partner of 3 years and we are active just not as much as I feel should be normal? His libido is very high and he understands mine is low. I just feel bad it’s soooo lowwww. Any tips I can do to bring it up? 🙏

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There’s no such thing as “normal” when it comes to how often a couple has sex. 
It’s more about whether or not you’re both satisfied.

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I find the more i have the more i want. But my husband has a lot of health issues so sometimes he can go weeks without or just wanting a wank for release so my sex drive drops. It can be hard to get it back up and can make my mental health take a hit but its a give and take in a relationship. As long as your both on the same page and talking hopefullyyou can find an even ground. Good luck

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What’s going on in your life. Stress. Lack of sleep. Body image. Insecurities. Weight gained. Diet. Deadlines. In-laws or family giving you a headache. Kids driving you nuts. Health issues. Side effects of medication or supplements. Sickness. Pain. Not happy at your job or living situation. Worried someone’s is going to walk in on you. Over thinking. Lack of connection with your partner. Arguing. Needs not being met. Them doing the minimal. Sex is psychological , emotional, physical. But at the same token, when was the last time you pampered yourself and felt good about yourself. When was the last time that you had date nights. Romance. Compliments. Appreciation. Slow danced in the kitchen. And on the other level talked dirty. Roll played. Had fun with your partner. Talked about fantasies and fulfilled them. Told the other what you couldn’t wait to do to them the minute they got home. To have that excitement and anticipation like in the beginning. The longer you are together the more you have to work at it and break the norm and routine. Good luck.

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Exercise and a good diet helps me a lot. When I’m not doing those things my libido is so low I could go months without even having any sexual feelings but once I start getting right I have a super high sex drive

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I'd love to hear the advice too bc I'm in the exact same boat 🥺

Am I weird?

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