Gender results?

Has anyone decided to fiind.out the gender early but regretted doing so.and wished they had waited until.the birth? My husband does not want to find.out but im unsure. Would love to hear from anyone that has? As an update:husband.has kids from a previous relationship and we have one together - all the same gender. We didnt find out with our first but this is our last so thats why im torn. However if i do find out ill still have to keep it a secret to respect his wishes so there wouldnt be any preparing only mentally?!