Upset about Father’s Day and birthday.

Is it childish that my boyfriend is upset because I’m not spending Father’s Day with him just for a few hours because I wanted to spend some time with my dad for Father’s Day from around 11 to 2 PM and spend the rest of the day with my boyfriend for Father’s Day and I also had doctors appointment on Monday, which is his birthday in the morning and he got upset because I had somewhere to go. He said that I should make him special on both days and I told him that why is it that I can’t hang out with my dad on Father’s Day? Why does he have to get upset? I understand, but it shouldn’t be an issue with me hanging out with my dad on Father’s Day also. Then I had already told him that I had something special planned for him or his birthday and he asked me what it was and I told him and he said that he didn’t wanna do it. He wanted to stay home. Then said I ruined another weekend & that I don’t care about him. I said I planned something for you and you don’t want to do it? And then said now I’m only canceling my plans because of how he feels. I feel like these things shouldn’t even be something to get mad about. For Mother’s Day he spent time with his mom and I spent time with my mom and I didn’t get upset. I ended up going to my mother-in-law‘s house around 5:30 on Mother’s Day and about an hour later he decided to leave with his friend so who should be the one that’s really upset. and I didn’t even get a card/gift from him. And he said the reason why is because we were arguing the night before. I don’t think hanging out with my dad on Father’s Day should even be a big of an issue. He said because the situation we are in I should be trying to want to hang out with him.