Was I insensitive to my wife
I've asked my dad, brother, and best friend and they all say my wife is overreacting. I'm wanting women's opinion so maybe I can see things from a different perspective. My wife likes to do makeup and promotes makeup online with her tiktok and YouTube channel. She told me about this person who is popular on tiktok but in a completely different category than my wife. She showed me his tiktok and he's popular for art and life hacks. Stuff like that. My wife has more knowledge of Internet lore than I do. He also got popular by talking about his abuse and bringing light to male sexual assault and toxic masculinity. My wife knows and I don't know how she knows but this person in particular if very different than the persona he puts online. That he does so many hardcore drugs and goes to parties to do drugs. My wife has been to parties in the past so maybe she saw him doing drugs. I'm not sure. She asked me for my opinions on her exposing who he really is. I asked why and she said because he's putting on a fake Internet persona. I said I personally wouldn't start drama just because someone does art by day and snorts coke by night. None of my business. She kept saying her issues with what he was doing and I asked how old he was because he looked young and she said he's 19 or 20. I wasn't trying to be mean but I said "I can't imagine being in my 30's and putting that much energy into some teenager I don't know." She has been mad at me and giving me the silent treatment and called me insensitive. Maybe I just don't understand the big deal. She doesn't know him. Her issue is that to her he's fake. Maybe if he was talking about toxic masculinity but then behind the scenes a huge misogynist I would maybe understand. I still wouldn't get involved. But he does drugs? I don't see why that's anyone's business and why start drama over something like that
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