any lawyers on here?

iam going to make this short..me and my hisband been married 10 years but we started living separately about 2 years now due to indifferences..he didnt want a divorce when we first separated..but now since its been too long he should kno what he wants right? he pays my bills and we get along great and yes we still have intercourse..but he does not want to come home or be "together" like be in a "relationship" he said he needs his space and peace..whatever that means.

Anyways my question is since i still wana work for my marriage and be with him..can i take to court to get him to make a decicion? either we get a divorced or he comes home and we get marriage counseling? or what can i do? thanks