How do you like the person who you have become?

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How do you transform into a person who you dreamed of becoming how do you accomplish your goals dreams ambition's
What do you do with your self when you feel like you let yourself down like you weren't able to accomplish something important to you it didn't work out and what do you do if you weren't strong enough and for a long time gave up on your ambition's what do you do if you let people down who counted on you because you didn't have faith in yourself and you didn't know how to be honest and tell the truth because it's personal it's private and how do you become a person who has integrity even if it's difficult because some days it's like there's a sadness in you that doesn't know how to be let out and all you want to do is make the people around you happy and you want to be a person who you are proud of how do you let go of anguish, fear, doubt, pain how do you take a leap try things out.
It's difficult when people don't understand depression and they don't understand why you can't go to work why you can't get up and have your whole life figured out 
why in the first place because of the pressure to be something be someone to do something with your life it was too much the decisions college, work and people rushing like there's no calm you feel like it's always a storm and you are tired of the storm and want to relax somewhere tropical without worries and Everything in your life like magic is healed.
There are people they look at people who have depression and think they are weak, disgusting they can't understand them they don't get it why they can't do something in there life and they judge them they are like why don't you do something for yourself it's sometimes you don't know what to do! You don't know what job or career is best you don't know if college is for you you are trying every day you are living and in your mind you want to be happy I would like to have a angel and a person who guide the way tells me what path to take what can help me I'd like to have happiness and be a trustworthy good honest happy person I'd like to see myself become someone I can respect and someone people can know is a good person I'd like to have happiness find me

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Prioritize yourself. Don’t allow yourself to believe that you need to achieve big goals to be happy. Start off with small goals. Setting up a daily routine, accomplishing that is a goal in itself. You need to change the way that you think, you don’t need to set super high and unrealistic goals for yourself. Celebrate the little things

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I agree with Anna, and I mean, you can do smaller goals for you if you need that. Sometimes getting out of bed for the day is the biggest achievement you needed today. Or just making breakfast

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After my menturation

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I had the learn the extreme hard way that people’s expectations of me and mine weren’t the same and as long as I’m meeting mine, I’ll survive. 
I had to start being a little selfish and realizing the goals I’ve set up for myself in life always get pushed to the back because I’m always trying to measure up to what everyone’s expectations of me were and it was kicking my behind. It took some attitude adjustment on my end which people don’t like but for my overall mental health, it’s needed. You just take everything one step at a time, don’t try to rush it, if something goes wrong, see where and how, decide rationally if you were doing it to please others because they told you to or you really wanted to deep down & looking for excuse to stop then decide how to proceed.

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This isn’t a fix all, but sometimes in moments and days when I’m struggling I have the power to address something magical around me - because it is always there. You don’t have to get excited about it just notice. Like if you have a pet, how amazing you have this beautiful domestic animals that you love xyz about. Or it’s something else like that we have running water or your bed is comfy or whatever. And maybe it will end there, but at least you got out of your train of thought for a moment and maybe it will lead to another positive thought. (Start to notice what you like and if those likes grow, change or evolve) Then if I do or don’t do that something else that I try to do is zoom out, maybe even way out! Like I picture this great big world spinning around and I’m in my little slice of it in my room or outside on a bench or whatever it may be and I don’t know why but I find that calming. 
Speaking of being outside, Google grounding. It’s therapeutic and amazing. And dare I say addictive☺️ it’s a don’t knock it till you try it kinda thing that costs and takes nothing from you but does so much surprising good. If you live near water stand barefoot in it.. 
I don’t have much guidance for you just those tools I use when I’m in a dark place, and it’s much less often now than ever. I too have craved guidance and felt like you. I never got it so I waitressed for 15 years and all in all it was a good path for me but I have often felt lost in my life (still do)
I also move my body a lot to feel better. Start small by googling seated stretches and try to do them to a song you might like if it doesn’t overstimulate you.

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Please when is my free period

How do you like the person who you have become?

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