not enough sex

Am i the asshole for wanting to have more sex with my man ? Me(20) and my man (21) have been together for 2 years. We started having sex pretty early on in our relationship (abt 6 months in ig) and for a YEAR straight we were having sex every day or every other day. I think the longest we went was 5 days without and that was because we were on vacation with his family. But about 5-6 months ago it really started to die down to maybe twice a week. and now in the last month we have had sex ONE time. And i felt like i had to be the one to initiate it.

There have been several times i've tried to make out with him and he shoved me so hard and it felt so uncalled for and unexpected. About a week ago I tried and he shoved me to the ground and when i yelled at him for acting crazy he told me that im the crazy one who only wants to have sex. I am wondering if this is a phase bc i love this man and the time that we spend together. But i am not feeling very loved in our relationship atm.

I've tried to explain that to him and he says "if all that will make you feel loved is sex idk what to tell you". WTF.

Someone please tell me if i am the problem bc if i am i can work on it. (0)

This is my first real relationship and i haven't seen many healthy relationships in my life so i am still learning pls be kind.