I’ve had this guy friend since early high school (we’re 21 now) and we have had make out sessions a couple of times and even had sex once but we never talk about feelings. I want to start having sec again and I am so comfortable with him so how should I proceed to talk about something like that. I also want to make sure he still appreciates and respects me because we had really good sex and I want something to happen but I really want to start exploring my body first. I just don’t know how to ask I’m shy and scared.