okay so please be nice i’ve never posted on here before but i wanted to get some different perspectives and opinions. so there’s a lot that goes into this. basically i recently broke up with my ex at the end of june. towards the end of our relationship things started going sour and would have tense arguments but we would always try to talk and work things out. i didn’t think we were heading downhill that fast until we had this huge argument over something completely out of my control. after that i knew we were going to break up and we did two days later after i got off of work over facetime. i ended up hanging up on him bc he not only could’ve come over to my house bc he lives 4 minutes away and he was sitting there watching me cry. i called two of my friends, cried, calmed down and then sat by myself. after that i’ve kinda feel like i’ve got a good handle on managing the loss. so to add in the possible hook up. my ex and i stopped having sex 2/2.5 weeks before we broke up so i’ve been fulfilling my needs by myself for a bit but ive started to feel like i want more. so a couple days ago my friend invited me to go with her and a bunch of her friends to an amusement park/water park. i went to have fun but one of her single guy friends and i were kinda flirting off and on the whole day. so fast forward my friend played match maker

and he and i started talking today. we’re both are fairly direct people so we’re on the same page about not wanting a relationship but haven’t gotten the chance to work out all the details. even though it’s only been a couple of weeks since my relationship ended, i feel like i’ve reflected w/o the rose colored glasses on and see a lot of red flags that i didn’t before that were quite obvious. but im not sure if it may be too soon, i feel like im ready and my friends are supportive. i tend to over think so i might be thinking about everything too much so here i am.