Mom guilt

Today has been one of those hard days for me as a stay at home mom. I feel guilty for screaming at my kids because they just won’t listen to me after trying to make them listen and do certain things and pick up after themselves . Also, I feel bad because they’re about to enter school and I feel like I have some kind of postpartum anger that is affecting me and when I get really mad I don’t have alot of that patience that I had before I had my third. I don’t want them to remember me as that mom that was always screaming. I love them so much just want the best for them.

Do yall have any tips that has helped yall?