My husband had an affair with someone significantly younger than him and me this girl is 30 years younger than him And 16 years younger than me

Yes, it was an emotional fair and I can’t really prove anything. Physical happened happened over a span of months they were coworkers.

I have seen and read and every single message as well as saving them

Not only did he ask her out and wanting to make out with her. I think the one thing that really gets me is when I was sitting next to him on the couch, telling him cheesy jokes he was texting them to her too.

Like that hurts so much to know I’m telling him a joke and he immediately texted her the jokes I was telling him and doing it behind my back he even made a fake profile so he could talk to her because he knew he couldn’t text her because I would see it because I’m the account holder of our cell phones

Am I overreacting on this aspect of the jokes?