I’ll start by saying I love my body, I’m a plus sized girl (230 pounds and 5’8), curvy in all the right places (I don’t really have an ass but nobody’s perfect). I’m confident in the bedroom and love my naked body, but here’s the problem: I feel very uncomfortable with my body when wearing clothes. I just feel like they never fit me right and make me look weird. Has anyone else experienced this?

Examples on how clothes don’t fit:

1. Clothes are too tight or too short because I have big honkers. This is a constant issue when trying to find dresses and tops. And it won’t fit anywhere else if I buy a bigger size.

2. I have a slimmer waist, wide hips and big thighs. If something fits around my thighs and hips it’s definitely too loose around my hips and I end up looking like a box. Also I found pants that fit me perfectly, but the fabric was really bad and I had to rebuy pants almost every month because of my thighs rubbing together causing holes + the brand was really expensive.

3. I have no idea how to dress, I used to have an ED so I just recently gave away all my hoodies and other baggy clothes to charity so I wouldn’t be tempted to use them again. I have to preference when it comes to clothes as far as I know, I just don’t wanna look like a sack of potatoes.