Rant time

Just looking to get opinions on this . I was pregnant with mine and my husbands fourth kid & my husband's sister has a boyfriend who meows like a cat and was accused of assaulting people so I didn’t want my kids around him. When I expressed my concerns, my husband's mom walked into my home and freaked out on me over it and he did nothing. Around Easter, his dad walked into my yard and freaked out about me being in their business. Mind you this went on for months. Then after I gave birth and in the hospital I wasn’t ready to see them and was still upset over this matter and how I’ve been treated, my husband invites all of them up anyways and made it seem as my feelings were irrelevant and he didn’t want to make his dad mad.. His dad ended up messaging me talking about I know your mad but he’d like to know my eldest child’s sport schedule.. after I sent it and said it wasn’t his place to be involved in one of our arguments he then “apologized “ Then a few days later Something had fallen out of his pocket while we were watching a movie at night and he hurried up and pushed it under the couch while hovering over me making sure I wouldn’t look. Couple days after that, I found some in his pants pocket asked him about them. They were snuff pouches and he said he just got them etc but later confessed to what was under the couch being the same. So he has hidden it from me for months. He knows how I feel about drugs, nicotine etc it’s a big no for me. It’s been lie after lie with multiple things.Then he asked me about his dad co-signing on a home for us (since I’m a sahm) I told him no I’d rather him not have anything to do with it. After me telling him no I then found out he went behind my back and continued with the bank etc. when confronted, he continued to lie until I said I knew but he always has excuses. He can’t just ever put the truth first.