I’ve been with my partner for just over 9 years. We have a wonderful daughter and due to be married next year.

I’ve come to realize something that is starting to make me feel uncomfortable and I don’t know how to approach it.

My partners sex life has definitely changed over the years but I’ve noticed he keeps trying when I’m asleep? He won’t ever attempt during the day only when I’m fast asleep? Sometimes I’ll wake up and he’ll be kissing all over my body and before I’ve woken up things are already happening. Sometimes the next day I’m not sure if it’s a dream or has actually happened because I’m not always fully awake.

I don’t believe he’s doing it to be mean but I’m not really in the headspace while half asleep to enjoy it so it’s more for his pleasure? I also don’t want to make him feel awkward but should I say something?