Hi ladies,

I had a traumatic delivery. My mom has been taking care of me but she does not live in the same city. I told my husband that I don’t want his mom to help me and prefer to do it on my own once I feel better. He said that I am going to need the help and if my mom was able to help that his mom has the same right.

My husband and I have been having marriage issues since last year and he has been very inposing towards me. Forcing me to only breastfeed, I was terrified to prepare formula and would have to do it hidden. He began treating me in a way that I began to fear for my life and my daughters. I decided to stay at my moms house with my newborn and be at peace and feel safe. He followed me and I asked him to stay elsewhwre since his behavior scares me. He told me that his mom was coming the next day. I sent her a text requesting for her to respect my decision to be with my baby. She did not cared and came. Now my husband is pushing me saying that if his mom cant visit her, he wont visit her. What do you think?