I sometimes feel like my husband is holding me back from doing things in life because we are at different financial levels. Meaning I had more in my savings prior to marriage than him. We have split finances at home. But things like traveling we can’t do because he doesn’t feel like he’s in a position to do it which I understand but it feels like I personally am not able to enjoy my life because of it. I haven’t travelled in yearrrrssss and he wouldn’t want me to go on my own or with others but I’m also not in the position to finance all expenses alone. Going out to eat and doing nice things rarely happens. And I’m honestly becoming a bit depressed.