me and my husband been together 9 years..but we started living separately about 2 years ago..due to marriage problems and decided to go different ways but never got divorced..we decided to try again but living separately for now..we both agreed at the time but now its like either u come home or not.

We still have problems because he has not fully changed some ways but anyways

he has a daughter out of marriage and lives in another country, he havent seen her in like 10 years..so lately he has been missing her and gives me hints that he wants papers to see his family (he is ilegal)..but i dont give him much attention because iam not going to lie, i feel he could possibly be using me for that..just because he has not been able to make a decicion bout living back with me..i love him i want to work it out and i want to trust him..so i want to help him see his daughter but iam really scared he going to use me then leave me..but i want to trust so i can at least try! but i want to be prepared in case he does do me dirty!

so who can i talk to, to be prepared just in case he does use me? i want to get as much information before i give him papers..i want to be confident in giving to him for the right reason but also if

he plays me show him that there is consecuences..i just want to be prepared thats all. thanks