Honestly I don’t know if this is even the right place for this but I just need some outside perspective and maybe reassurance.

My husband and I aren’t quite at a point to start TTC (hoping to start mid next year) but I’ve been trying to get my body ready for when we do. I’ve always had cycles that range from 36-46 days in between and they had been following that pattern until recently. I’m currently on cycle day 81, no period in site, I’m not pregnant (we haven’t had sex in months due to other medical issues we are still trying to get answers for, I see dermatology in December and a vulva clinic in January)

I’m getting lab work done today to test my estrogen, basic labs, thyroid, fsh, and a few other things. Not knowing what is going on with my body isn’t helping and I’m worried that whatever it is could mean either struggling to get pregnant or possibly not being able to have kids entirely.

Has anyone had this happen and things turned out okay? I just can’t stop thinking about the worst case scenarios.