Me and my bf have a child together

She is now 3

Anyway he works about 10 hours a day and chooses to go to the gym after work while I stay home with our kid. Which I’m fine with.

The problem is he has no consideration ever.

He’ll spend 3 hours at the gym or will call me up and say I’m guna get a haircut before the gym. And it just bothers me. We agreed to him going to the gym 4 days a week but even then the one day he stays home he isn’t helping with our kid.

I also work , I also go to the gym around 4 in the morning because it’s the only way I’m able to go.

I’ve talked to him about it and he just says he’ll help on the weekends . It’s just not fair to me.

My kid is not the issue at all. She’s a good girl and very easy to take care of. But sometimes I just get burnt out and can’t be my best self for her.

Idk what to do at this point and I just feel so irritated with him.

I just hate how he feels like he can do everything and not have to consider that he also has a kid.

Everything I do , whether it’s going to the store, or going anywhere I have to take her with me and although she’s not hard, it’s a task in itself rather then going by yourself

I just feel like it’s unfair.