My husband is a gamer and I used to be. I don’t really have the time these days because I’m taking care of our two kids.

My husband likes to talk on his mic with his group of friends that he games with. A few months ago, I noticed a female had joined their group. I don’t know how long she has been apart of their group, but it seems like all the guys jokingly fight over her. I noticed how excited he gets whenever he’s on the mic. One day, I went through his Apple Watch and noticed they had exchanged numbers. There was a message from her saying “I know you have a wife and family, and I don’t ever want to ruin that.” The messages aren’t sexual in nature, but obviously a conversation he would never have with one of his guys.I also noticed she checked my tik tok page. It makes me think something is going on. Whenever I ask him about her, he becomes defensive and says it’s not like that. I’m pregnant right now and life is already hard, I’m literally going to crash out. I don’t know what to do. I feel like my world is ending. Like will my husband really ruin his family over a girl he never met in person?