Me and my husband have been married for 5 yrs. Before that we had a break up that lasted about a year 1 year into dating (we dated for about 4 years before marriage). We both hooked up with other people but spared eachother the details. Well this week he found out through a friend that I was “dating” the guy I hooked up with multiple times. I tried to explain to him that I didnt label as a relationship because it didnt last for more than a month and it ended because I had no romantic feelings for this man. Hes so upset, calling me a liar. I feel really guilty but I was single? I was taught dont share what doesnt need to be shared. I dont want this to change our relationship so how do I fix things?