Am I being dramatic or is this valid to be annoyed by?
Do yall think I’m being dramatic or is this something valid to be upset and annoyed by/done with? I blocked one of my close family members earlier and uninvited her to my childs birthday because I’ve just had it with the smart remarks on my social media about how many kids I have or about having kids period. I have 2 children, mind you that’s not a lot in our family considering all my sisters cousins and every woman in the family period have 2-5 kids so it’s not just me but for whatever reason I am literally the only one who gets comments like this. Also mind you I get absolutely zero help from anyone in my family nobody watches my kids or does ANYTHING for them I take care and provide for them completely on my own, this family member literally only sees us on holidays. I posted about how I was struggling with not getting sleep lately because my youngest is going through a sleep regression and said family member- instead of offering advice or support or even simply scrolling past- commented and asked if I ever had considered birth control.😒😒😒 insinuating if I had just been on birth control I wouldn’t have had the child and wouldn’t be losing sleep. Last thing I wanna hear when I’m sleep deprived and struggling with something every mom on this planet has struggled with. I wanted to comment back and cuss them out or ask what the point in that comment was but decided not to and just immediately blocked them which probably seems dramatic but that’s not even close to the first time they have commented something like that on my posts completely unprovoked. Not even things that I post myself I can just simply share something about kids in general or anything even related to kids and they will comment saying I need to get my tubes tied or asking if I’ve “learned my lesson about having kids now” blah blah blah blah blah. The other day I shared a post about car seats and they commented saying it’s “time for me to get tied”. Like they do not interact with my posts unless it’s to say something rude about my children or about me having them as if they’re mistakes or something. I have never once seen a comment be made like that to anyone else in my family, this family members legit praises everyone else for having kids so it honestly just feels like a personal issue against me for whatever reason and I’m just sick of it. I uninvited them to my child’s birthday coming up as well and now I’m wondering if I look like a bitch but at this point idk if I even care. I don’t want someone at my kids party celebrating my kid who clearly has an issue and constantly has something negative to say and constantly hinting at the fact I shouldn’t have had them. It’s just weird and very aggravating
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