My boyfriend has a friend that’s a girl. I’ve met her and she’s super nice. I started to get insecure about her when he would bring her up. Ex// showing me pictures of her to show what she wore to an activity they did together (that he is now bringing me to do.

He hasn’t seen this girl in 4/5 months. She is in town for work and asked my boyfriend out to dinner. They ended up deciding to get drinks instead. I encouraged him to go because I really wanted to be okay with it (because I feel like I should). He ended up leaving the bar (I saw his location on find my friends) and they were walking around. He told me later that he was showing her around the city. It was 10 pm at night.

Is it weird that I didn’t get invited to go since we live together?

Is it normal that I got upset that he didn’t tell me they were leaving the bar to walk around?

I feel like I’m over reacting. When I brought up my insecurities about him not telling me they left the bar, he just got mad and said “he’s not allowed to have any freedom”.

Portion of my insecurities come from the two online relationships he formed over the past year and a half. One was a while ago, but the other one was in spring of this year.