I finally broke up with my ex bf in late July after constant down talking, controlling, and manipulating me. When I broke up with him I was already mentally checked out for a couple months and it didn’t really hurt me to leave him because of everything he has put me through I finally felt free. It’s now October and he still keeps trying to contact me and he even made a tiktok saying how sad he is, posting about how he is just drinking all the time. And in multiple posts he writes a paragraph about how if he ever finds out I cheated on him or anything he’s going to make me pay every tear he cried. I never cheated on him while we were together but he is so sensitive and I feel like he can make something up just to make me suffer. I’m so tired of him acting like the victim and I just want to move on but I don’t know what to do because I still feel like I can’t live my life the way I want, I want to go on dates but I feel like if he ever sees me dating someone new he will ruin it for me. Someone please give me advice!