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Im gonna hold your hand when I say this....
Seeing a new guy I like but I have questions
this is the second consecutive Sunday he completey doesn’t text me like he’s ghost. Lastnight 1:30am he said he fell asleep around 7:30-8pm so this morning when I saw the text I said oh okay. He hasn’t text me all day and he did this last week too. I feel like he’s been amazing so far he tells me his plans he wants a family and a baby with me. We have been talking online for about a year this is our second week/time hanging out in person. he has two phones, I noticed his phone was on silent yesterday and he books hotel to get away from the house his family lives there, he’s 30 I’m not sure if these are red flags I don’t want them to be because I like him.
Edit: ok so he actually texted me just now at 7pm 😅 but still I feel like I always want to get out while I’m already into deep 🙏 I just want this one to workout
UPDATEEEE: I’m at a hotel with him again someone called him 5am he said that was his alarm like who don’t know the difference by now???? Then we came out the shower just now and I seen a text/call from someone with her whole photo in the profile pic I tried not to look but I glanced… he checked his phone now his phones r faced down 💔💔💔 I just asked if someone called or texted him he said no
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I think booking hotels to get away from the family is normal when you live with your family. I've done it. Some people have two phones. Could be one for work and one personal. Or maybe an old one and a new one because there's stuff on the old one he can't get onto his new one… Who knows. Have you ever asked him why he has two phones? Could be a shady reason too, but I wouldn't assume it right off the bat. The only thing I can see might be a red flag is that you've been talking for a year and have only hung out twice. But no, I would not automatically assume that he has a whole other life and family because he doesn't talk to you all day on Sundays.
Te
Woww okay thank u ❤️
Mo
😂 he is coming onto you and telling you he wants sexy time with you. What I can tell you from my experience is that every single time I booked a hotel to get away from my family, it was actually to go have sex with someone lol
Te
Wat about him asking me to come to the hotel wanting to kiss touch my leg etc or he’s just testing my boundaries
Have you asked him why he has two phones and doesn’t talk on Sundays? Why did it take you so long to meet in person?
S
Did you tell him you know she called? I have had guys I stopped talking to continue to try to contact me before so it’s possible it’s something like that but I would be hesitant to buy into that
Te
I asked him who’s briana he waited like 4 seconds and said a girl he used to talk to….. and said she’s crazy and ask how I know her. 😩😩😩😩
S
Yeah I’m sorry, that’s definitely a big red flag. Hiding it is super sus. I think I’d probably call him out on it, tell him you know what you saw and heard and ask him to be up front. He’ll either have an explanation, confess, or he’ll get defensive and scramble for excuses/deflection methods which will tell you all you need to know. You don’t have anything to lose by confronting him, if there’s no trust then there’s no relationship anyway.
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