My Boyfriend of almost 2 years blocked me
Sorry for the long post in advance, I just need advice and figured I would give you guys all the info.
My boyfriend of almost 2 years blocked me on everything and has not contacted me for 5 days. On Thursday I told him how I felt about having to wait for him in the front of his job getting harassed by the security to move to a parking spot because he didn’t come out right away. I didn’t yell or anything but, by my tone, he could tell I was annoyed. So on the way home he just put his headphones in and didn’t talk to me. We got to his house and he just left out of my car without saying bye, no kiss, not even a thank you. Before I pulled away, I noticed he left his keys and bookbag in my car. I waited for a second figuring he would notice and come back to the car to grab it but then I just heard him knocking on the door to be let in by a family member. So i got out of my car and took him his things, again not a thank you, kiss, nothing.
Later that day I texted him apologizing for snapping. No response. I figured he might still be mad so I just left him alone. Next day I realized I was blocked on instagram, and he blocked me on the phone. I was pissed because literally 2 weeks before I told him how blocking me made me feel and I felt like he was being petty or trying to punish me just for saying how I felt. Especially since before Thursday we had a great week, went out on dates and everything.
By Saturday I still didn’t hear from him, but I needed the saw he borrowed from my great gpop and my airpods so I went to his house and knocked on the door. He just stuck his arm out from the crack of the door without saying anything and handed me the saw and my AirPods. I just grabbed both, and left. It’s now Tuesday and he still hasn’t tried to contact me. I will admit I was petty as well and blocked him on everything except my phone in case he wanted to reach out.
So at this point it’s been 5 days no contact so in my mind we aren’t together anymore, but I still would like to know what happened. Was it just because of what happened Thursday which was really nothing? Or was he feeling this way for a while and I didn’t notice? Or is this his way of punishing me?
I am thinking about trying to call him from my house phone since he doesn’t have that number and ask him to talk, but I don’t know if that is the best thing to do… Or do I just leave him alone and take this as we are broken up?
Again, sorry for the long post, but let me know what you guys think I should do! Thank you.
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