My boyfriend’s son, whom I barely see, is mean to me lol. And he’s only 4. Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We got an apartment back in May of 2024 with my son too. Who’s also 4 lol.

He is mean to my son. He hit me & my son, so I told him not to hit. He just yells or does that whine kids do lol. He bosses his dad around. His dad does everything he says, even if it’s candy he wants instead of dinner. I mean, it is his son.

We were visiting my boyfriends parents with the kids, and he acted like he owned the place (he’s there often) yelling at me, being rude to me, taking toys away from my son even paper my son was looking at he’d snatch it away. If I tell him don’t do that, he’ll pull a tantrum to his grandmother. He told me to “go back home”, “go back to (says my hometown)”, & called me a name in his language lol. It hurt my feelings. I just don’t know; I can’t get close to this boy & I’m not sure what to do.

He’s at daycare all day, I’m home with my 3 year old & our newborn. He’s often at his grandparents or his moms instead of home.

Golly, I type “lol” & y’all go after that 😅 I’m not laughing the whole time I wrote this sheesh. It’s just a habit to type “lol”. AND, we were long distance for 3 years. I just moved to his town in May, and my son is on a wait list for daycare. Plus im home anyway with our newborn. Daycare puts the kids who have working parents first. His son has already been attending this daycare cuz his dad works. I don’t do one on one, no. I do treat him like my own son, but however he still can be mean. I don’t treat any of them any different. If my son does anything mean to him, I talk to him & tell him not to hit.