Idk what to do

Right now I’m trying to get my daughter back from cps. The last step is to move into a new apartment. My boyfriend has a place but is getting evicted. The last place was a mess and now he wants to move in with me to my new place I get this month. He doesn’t clean. He also has a 13 year old daughter who he expects me to watch while he is at work. He also works 20 mins away and expects me to drive him even though my car needs maintenance. He also wants me to let his uncle move in who is a hoarder and try’s to touch me before. Am I mean for not wanting to move with them ? He also wants to bring along a stray cat from outside which I don’t want to have to clean up after. Should I just move by myself or maybe just tell him he can only stay for so long ? This whole situation is stressing me out and I’m just trying to work and get my daughter back.

Edit: he is also my daughters dad idk if that makes a difference