How do I tell my husband sex with him is boring

I’m at my wits end.

8 years of having sex with this man and it’s the same position over and over

For 2 minutes max

He gives me foreplay SOMETIMES and it sucks SO much. His fingers burn my vagina and he has no clue how to eat a girl out.

He only wants to have sex once a week or once every 2, and if I initiate he barely puts in the effort

For context, he’s always been this way. I’ve tried asking if it’s that he doesn’t t like me. He says it isn’t that. When we do have sex he seems to enjoy it obviously on HIS own terms

He’s overweight, doesn’t exercise, works at a desk job. I’ve dumbed it down to him just having a low libido. I just want to tell him that I want to give our sex life a break because it honestly only makes me angry

I masturbate ANY time im alone because i crave sex from him but he just doesn’t want it ever.

If I bring this up he says that “sex is all I (me, his wife) think about” I don’t even know anymore

I want our sex life to be exciting, I’m 25, all my friends have amazing sex lives and my husband is distant from it.

I’ve considered even cheating on him because I feel so unwanted sometimes

Someone please help me