Finishing up my divorce. My ex husband cheated on me with who I thought was my best friend. They are still together. I’m finding it hard to date. I have no interest in todays dating scene (getting to know someone then when it’s time to be “bf/gf” they ghost or aren’t ready for that) I’m too afraid to be hurt, too guarded and protective of my heart. It’s been almost 2 years and I’ve been celibate for 7 months now too. Going through these waves of loneliness. Anyone else? Any advice on how to make dating seem not so scary?