Has anyone ever got back with an ex? What was your experience ?

My ex and I broke up a year and a half ago. It was a right person wrong time type of thing. We were so in love He was ready to start a family/buy a house/ was in university and had a future planned out. I was still figuring out who I was. At the time we were both 26 and living with our parents. Mine just got divorced and my mom was a mess and all household responsibilities were on me cause I felt I had to for my younger brothers. All of his time was spent at university studying. He broke up with me and I was absolutely Devastated but at the same time it was a relief I was sick of trying to explain myself as to why I don’t have the energy to plan for my future right now and I was sick of wishing he had more time to spend with me. But we were so in love. Or so I thought. But after breaking up he got a new girlfriend right away. They lasted 6 months. But during that time I was devastated and an absolute mess.

About a year and a half has passed. And we started talking again. He just graduated university and I have a couple more years left but I have a future planned and am moved out from my parents. I’m still madly in love with him. He said breaking up with me was a mistake. We agreed for now we’re just casually seeing each other and seeing where this goes without telling anyone.

I’m not sure what I should do.

I feel like I will be judged if I get back with him cause after breaking up all the people who are close to me seen what I went through and were upset with him for moving on to a new girl a week later and started bringing her to every place we would go together in front of all the people we would see regularly. A lot of people including me were pissed at him for going about it the way he did. My family didn’t like him much anymore either.

But the whole time I never stopped loving him. I would love to be back together with him but then I think back to that time in my life that he left me absolutely broken.

And it’s a difficult decision to make.

Advice?

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An

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He left you at your lowest and behaved abysmally by bringing the new girl around for everyone to see just a week later. You may love him but he has shown you a character about him that you are choosing to ignore because of how you feel now. That character will rear its head again when you need him again and he cant be bothered or he has his own plans. So whatever you decide to do, remember that and act accordingly

Sh

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Just observe him for the time being and make sure he is not the same person he was in the past!