Lesbian turned hetero, need advice 🥺

Long story short, I’ve exclusively dated women for more than a decade but got into chatting with a man and turns out I like him, like a lot. Regardless of how or why, we’ve been talking for a few months and we’ve already talked about having kids together. I’ve got some questions lol

1. How likely is it that we will end up starting a family if I haven’t been on any type of BC for 8+ years?

2. We’re not trying rn but we’re not not trying…so clearly no protection. Should I see a physician for help or wait a few months?

3. Because of my lack of knowledge in the “getting pregnant” world, what are my best options/choices in getting pregnant.

Any and all advice welcome, but please if you don’t understand why I switched teams (girl, me either) but I don’t want the negative comments. I genuinely want some advice and need the support of all the women in this community. TYIA!