Would you drag him along? Or let him be?

My fiance would rather stay home and watch football than come with me for a 3 hr roadtrip tomorrow for Thanksgiving with my family. He pulled the “I’ll still go with you if you want me to” card today after all this time saying he didn’t want to go, that he was going to stay and watch football with his family who we live right next too and are with 24/7. & then when making arrangements to have Christmas with my mom he told me “idk we haven’t gotten there yet” to me asking if he was gonna go. Then like 2 days later said yeah I’ll go.

& I work Friday Saturday & Sunday so I’m not gonna be with him at all much.