So husband and I have discussed previously about wanting to have 4-6 babies. God has blessed us with 4 healthy children and one angel baby which I am forever grateful for. My husband had said while I was pregnant with our last baby that he intended to get fixed shortly after I had the baby. I felt 100% on the same page when I was pregnant. But it was like something broke inside me when we were walking out of the hospital with our baby… knowing this is our last baby. My heart hurts so bad. Husband was super excited and called scheduled his consultation literally 2 days after our baby was born. I’m trying to not let my emotions make him feel like he needs to change his mind because I would never want to pressure him. I was crying quietly the other night and he asked me what was going on and I tried to explain to him that it just makes me sad and idk why but I just don’t feel the way I felt when I was pregnant. Fast forward to now 4m PP and he has had his consultation and is scheduled to get his vasectomy in 2 weeks. He was joking about it earlier in the car asking if I’m going to make him a bunch of snacks for a gift. I guess I’m just curious how someone gets through this. I personally would love to have 1-2 more babies but I know he is saying he’s done so I need to respect that too. Just was wondering if anyone else has been through something similar.