Am i wrong for being upset?

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My bf has been doing this often and it has started to annoy me! I see my bf once a week due to conflicting schedules at the moment!
 Well he always asks me what I want to do. I tell him what I’ve been wanting to do and he will come up with an excuse and suggests something different. It’s upsetting ….
 One time he asked what I wanted to do. I told him I wanted to go to the mall. He said he wasn’t really feeling it and suggested we just stay home after having breakfast. I literally told him what is the point of asking me if he wants to do his own plans. We ended up going and we left early because he was annoyed. Felt bad…
 There was another instance where he mentioned going hiking. He said he’s been wanting to go to a lake. I brought it up a week later when he asked me what I wanted to do. I told him we should go hiking then grab some lunch after. He said he was thinking of something else. We stayed home and had lunch. 🤷🏻‍♀️
 Just right now he texted me asking me what I wanted to eat tomorrow. I told him I’ve been craving this seafood place. He said he is craving something else and suggested another place.🤦🏻‍♀️
 It’s always the same situation where he asks me what I want to do and he suggests his own thing. Why ask to begin with? We don’t do anything I’ve been wanting to do. Matter of fact he has never considered my interest or feelings. I feel bad admitting this but I’m getting bored.

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So what does he say when you talk to him about it?

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I’m probably missing something here but I don’t get the comments about this being a red flag. Are you expecting to choose what y’all do every time? Just because someone asks “what do you want to do” doesn’t mean the first thing mentioned is what happens. It doesn’t mean you get to choose and he has to do it. Sounds like you’re frustrated that he asks you and then y’all don’t do what you say. But I couldn’t tell you the last time my husband and I did the first thing that I (or he) wanted to do, and we do things together every day. 
I think both of you planning ahead of time, especially since you only see each other once a week, would save a lot of time and frustration. So for example, you plan 1st and 3rd week, he plans 2nd and 4th. But I think those plans need to be something you both enjoy doing.

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Have you calmly discussed this with him? Not just a quippy remark in the moment, but a separate conversation. 
Do you ever ask him what he wants to do before he asks you? It kind of feels like he expects you to say “idk, what do you want?” 
It sounds annoying. But it also sounds like improving your communication will fix it.

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Maybe instead of waiting for him to ask you what you want to do, let him know ahead of time what you want to do. If he suggests something else, say well let's do my thing this time and yours next time. You should both get to do some of the things you want to do. ￼￼I think you should let him know that you won't always be willing to put aside your wants for his. Not every time. ￼

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Your examples sound annoying for sure. But. The lack of consideration for your feelings is a red imo.

Am i wrong for being upset?

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