Age Gap and Trying For A Baby.

My boyfriend and I are currently trying for our first, and we’ve been trying since September. I haven’t really used ovulation tests so I never know when I ovulate. I had a very short cycle in December. I had a period on November 15th, 2024 and then I had a period on December 6th-7th and I just finished one that started on December 29th, 2024. Glow says to take a ovulation test on Monday. For a bit more of a back story, my boyfriend is nineteen years old and I am twenty-six. My boyfriend and I have been friends for three years since he was seventeen, we both have disabilities, and we met through my abusive ex-fiancé, my boyfriend saw first hand the abuse I went through. I had finally had enough and left my ex-fiancé this past April, a month after I left my ex-fiancé my boyfriend and I got together. Now I’ve had a crush on my boyfriend since I met him and I would playfully flirt with him even in front of my ex-fiancé who I was with at that time. I wouldn’t of done anything with my boyfriend while I was still with my ex-fiancé. My boyfriend wanted to try for a baby as soon as we started going out, I had told him I wanted a baby before I’m thirty years old and he always wanted to be a Dad, so he is wanting to try for a baby as well. We don’t live with each other at the moment but I’ll be moving into an apartment in March and he’ll be moving in a couple months after me. We know we will need support to raise a baby because of our disabilities and we have some supports in place to help us. He currently lives with his Mom and he sees his Dad from Friday Night until Monday Afternoon. I started taking prenatal vitamins. I had a preconception checkup. I have to make an appointment with my OBGYN this week because she said when I saw her in August to come back to see her if I hadn’t gotten pregnant in four months. I was diagnosed with PCOS and was put on Provera to restart my period I’ve been off of them since September. And have had several natural periods after coming off Provera. Please don’t leave rude/hurtful comments related to my boyfriend and I’s disabilities and raising a baby or that I was “grooming” him when he was seventeen. I’ve heard enough of that and don’t need anymore of those comments. We know people wont like how we got together or our age difference but we love each other and want to start a family together. And because of the comments from trying for a baby while we have disabilities and from the age gap and people thinking I was grooming my boyfriend when he was seventeen I have decided to keep myself anonymous. Thank you. I just would like some advice or anything else you have to offer.