Well 1 month ago my husband told me that his family (his sister, and dad) always tell him they think I treat him like a joke (even though this started 4yrs ago), Like I walk all over him and take him for granted. And I can say with all my body and soal that what they say is so far from the truth!!!

I will do anything for my husband and that means anything I would stop what I am doing anytime he needs me, but I don't get the same with him when he is on his time I feel like I am put on the back burner and this is why I think his "family" thinks this, because he always wants to be around them and when he puts me on the back burner, I'm not such a team player more like a go through the motions person, and it wasn't always that way. 

But every time I tell him how I feel he says I just throw him under the bus because when I do something wrong I think I have to take him with me, how is this even working when Everytime I try, you make me feel worse grrrrr!!!!! I try to give you 100% but when I need you, you complain and I only get 20% if that from you!! 

Maybe I'm the one whose the joke and the one who's being taken for granted! A girl can only take so much!!!! 

So sorry everyone but when I try to tell my husband this he just makes me feel horrible so I told you all. 

Thanks for listening.