Is something wrong with me?

Question

I’ve only had one orgasm that I know of and it was many years ago. I’ve never had a guy get me there.

Answer

There is nothing “wrong” with you, and you are not “broken”. You are much more normal than you may think. And unfortunately, sex-ed  sucks.
Only 1 out of every 5 women can orgasm from just intercourse. Researchers think that this is because of our anatomy. In those women’s bodies, their clitoris is close enough to their vaginal opening to get the penis to stimulate it during normal intercourse. The other 4 out of the 5 women need to take extra steps to orgasm with their parners.
When you say you never orgasmed ( or at most once a long time ago), I hope you mean with a partner, and not by yourself. Masturbation is an important part of a woman’s bodily education. It s a private laboratory where she can learn about her sexual response, orgasms and how to get there
If you have not figured that out, that is where you should start. Just in case you have not figured it out yourself yet:
You have two main organs in your vulva - the clitoris which is your main source of pleasure, and your vagina that serves a mainly reproductive role. 
Your vagina does not have a whole lot of nerve endings compared to your clitoris. This is to protect you from traumatic pain during child birth, menstruation, infections, and penetration. It serves as a safe place for your partner to ejaculate his sperm to make you pregnant, it is the birth canal for that baby, and it is the outlet for menstrual flow and discharge. The most sensitivity is around the opening and just inside the opening. These areas are sensitive to stroking. Deeper in your vagina is mostly pretty numb but sensitive to pressure, rather than stroking.
Your clitoris on the other hand is just the opposite. It has no function at all, except for sexual pleasure. It has around 10,000 nerve endings and is sensitive to stroking, pressure, and vibration. Think of it as his whole penis squeezed into that little tip you can feel(the glans). Now double the pleasure he can feel, and you have your clitoris. Your clitoris is the most sensitive organ anywhere on the human body. Not only that, but it also goes deep inside your body forming 2 wishbone structures, the bulbs and the legs. Today, researchers think the legs are what we previously thought to be the so-called g-spot. The bulbs are under your lips and contributes to the sensitivity of your vulva and vaginal opening.
So what can YOU do to orgasm with your partner?
* If you have not learned to orgasm by yourself, start there. Rub, squeeze, grind, tap around and on your clitoris when you masturbate. Learn what feels good and what does not.
Once you have learned that, you have the following options during intercourse:
* Rub your own clitoris during intercourse.
* Ask your partner to rub your clitoris during intercourse (doggy, spooning, or you on top is the easiest for this)
* Use a small clitoral vibrator during intercourse
* Use a couples vibrator
* Change how you move. With him fully inside you, tilt your pelvis so that your clitoris makes contact with his body, then grind, squeeze, and rub it on him. The in/out/up/down movement is not the only way to have sex. A position like you on top can help you. There you have full control over the action.
* Accept that you are not going to orgasm from intercourse alone. Enjoy it for the intimacy, but orgasm before and/or after from oral sex or fingering
Like most women, you can learn these techniques and have very fulfilling and joyful sex with your partner. These techniques may feel unnatural at first, but it will very quickly become natural and an automatic part of your sexual repertoire.

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