Annoyed by my bf

So me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months, about to be 3, and up to this point, we were doing so good until the arguement s started being more frequent. It sounds bad if I say that they weren’t my fault, but it wasn’t. I do take accountability though because I learn his POV. One of our arguments was because he was mad that I was singing a Chris brown song, and goes on to say that I should be on mute if I’m listening to that. He also tells me that I’m not being respectful because I own and wear a Chris brown tshirt. I liked this music artist since I was 5. But anyways, we’ve had plenty of dumb little arguments and just yesterday we had another one that kind of took the cake. He weaponized something sensitive I said to him, and the next day he did apologize and sent two paragraphs on my behalf. This past week though, I’ve been growing more irritated and annoyed by him. He could ask me something and I feel like I’m ready to crash out. For some more information, I’m a quiet person who prefers quality time over talking and he loves a talker. I was talkative when I was younger, but I got called annoying in middle school which made me quiet down. He treats me good (for the most part) but it’s like he has anger issues because it always feels like I have to walk on egg shells around him. He blows up and gets mad over little things. He victimizes himself and tries to manipulate me (By telling me that a particular situation wasn’t as it seemed even though I was literally there and had full context of it.) He always asks me the same questions every 5 minutes, which already annoys me more because we talked about that. Normally I never would get mad at someone for saying “I love you” but he keeps saying it 30 times in a span of a second. We are also long distant which makes this much more harder, in my opinion. I feel so bad because I love him and the thought of breaking up is just so gut-wrenching to me. Every little thing he does is just irritating to me and he annoys me so bad. Does anybody else feel like this sometimes?

Sorry for the long post but please provide me with some advice ❤️