PLEASE tell me this happened to you before!!!

So I’m 38 days late for af, I’ve now missed visits from af. I can’t even remember what af in November was like and to be honest I had given up hope so my tracking was basically the first day of af and that was it for the past 6 months or so. I paid no attention to any of it except to report the first day af started and that’s it. So in December I completely missed af, same for January, and February 9th is when af would typically be due again, which I realize is a little time away from now. I’ve been having symptoms of course, breasts aching, nipples hyper sensitive and tmi but stimulated all the time suddenly (not an af symptom for me), the past 2 weeks I’ve noticed a sudden aversion to pork (namely bacon and sausage… and I LOVE bacon, until now), lower back pain, fatigue, etc… well here’s the kicker, I took hpts at 8 days late, 13 days late, and 26 days late… all of which were negative. I went to my obgyn and had labs drawn, as far as I know, still negative (they stated everything was normal on the phone but the doctor wanted me to come in and discuss my options, ask questions, etc…) so I’m assuming that means negative in the pregnancy but 🤷🏻‍♀️. So I guess what I’m asking is does anyone have a similar story and they still ended up pregnant? Or a similar story and you want to share what happened…? I just don’t get missing af AND having all these symptoms but then getting negative tests… it’s quite confusing. I have read so many stories of people still being pregnant and pushing for an ultrasound and finding out they’re like 20 weeks pregnant even though all their tests were negative, including the blood test. Any true life stories here? Please be kind as a lot of us here are trying hard (or we’re in my case until now, again…) to conceive and any little things can seem immense for us especially after trying for so long!