hi guys!! i really don’t know how to start these things but i guess im just reaching out in need of advice and just to vent. i want to give a brief history of my situation going on, in march of 2023 i started hanging out with this boy. we hung out for weeks bc we were on break from school we hung out basically everyday until school came back on. to make a VERYY long and confusing story short he ended up having a girlfriend who he broke up with in april of 2023 for me i guess. i’m not even very sure how long they were together for but im told it was at least a few months long. at this point i was in my freshmen year so im very young DUMB AND NAIVE.

i ended up dating this boy from my freshmen year (may 2023) to junior year (november 2024) i really feel like this boy was my first love and we did everything together. towards the end of our relationship things got rocky and he just started to call me crazy or would say i overreacted to his actions. any ways we ended up breaking up because i heard rumours he was speaking with his ex (from above), i had reached out to this ex because we were on what i thought was good conditions LEARNED MY LESSON NOW. but she told me “he was a pos who’s never gonna change, she’s would never get with him again” and so forth. she pretended to be my friend during this time and would check up on me. i would vent to her about how i felt about him and all this. which i would not do but she texted me first to begin with.

i guess to cut out some parts and for the sake of the people reading this i’ll make it short. not even 2 months after we’ve broken up i’ve found out they’re having sex and are involved with each other again after her telling me all that stuff and being that friendly with me.

i’m really just hurt by the fact she lied to me and let me look stupid while making me think she was my friend. while everyone was telling me she’s a fake person i defended her. i guess im just back to a really low spot in my life and i need some advice on how to get over this sorta thing. how am i supposed to just sit here while he and she get to make me look so fucking stupid. i really don’t understand.