I am praying so hard my sisters baby is okay

GRACE Lilith • Previously Lilith DV survivor

- I should probably add have nowhere else to go with this and I figured this was a safe place I could talk about it. I’m actually crying. I love my sister and her little baby😭

My mom is taking her to the ER now. I stayed right next to her making sure she was okay but she’s 22 weeks and bleeding and having pain. She wanted to take a hot bath but we said no because we don’t have any idea if she could be dilated. She said she has had no signs of losing the waters and nothing that feels like contractions. She says her side and back really hurt. I didn’t want to go in and be just more of a party in peoples way so decided to stay back and just wait for updates. This is my baby sister🥺 this is her first baby 🥺

If you pray, please pray with us or even if you don’t please just sent good vibes. I’ve had so many friends have babies but nobody has ever called me and said “I need to go to the ER I am bleeding.” I am so very worried. 😔

I will update back with any news

Plans completely changed dramatically at the very last second and I am here in the ER with my sister. She is filling out paperwork now. She’s very nervous but I feel a lot better being here with her.

Mom is on the way. Sis says she just feels very tired.

Update we are being moved to a different hospital. All they could do here was confirm baby’s heart beat on the ultrasound and say go somewhere else. my sister my mom and myself are all together about to leave for the second hospital. My sister said she wanted me to come to this second hospital.

She is back getting examined and getting an ultrasound done. I’m just waiting now to see what they say.

For what we know right now, she has a really BAD uti Which may explain the pain and blood but it’s currently being looked into to make sure nothing else is as miss. I’m shocked with how much she really wanted me here today just as much as she wanted mom here. I love it❤️ crossing my fingers we get a good ultrasound of the baby’s profile! She’s been wanting one so bad.

ETA: baby is perfectly fine! Safe and snug where he should be. Good heart beat, very active. I felt him kick and it felt like a tiny fairy kick.

She has a really bad UTI and BV all together which explains the pain and the blood. With some meds she’ll be back to normal. Thank y’all for the prayers!

Guys I keep thinking back to today, and my mom and sister mostly had it handled after I got my sis to the first hospital while my mom had to do something else. After my mom got to her I could have split off but I turned and I said “do you want me to come with?” And she slowly shook her head yes.

Anytime it would be a moment where I thought I needed to leave the room she was like “no stay with me.” 🥺 so I just stayed with her.

I’m genuinely so thankful to have that bond. I’m glad she trusts me to this extent to make sure she’s okay and that her baby is okay. I love her ❤️