Anyone else have a hard time?

Question

I miscarried last year and found out I was pregnant on my birthday April 25th last year. I realized that it’s almost been a whole year and I still haven’t been able to get pregnant again and had a full breakdown. Does anyone else have a hard time when it gets close to these milestone dates?

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Yes, absolutely. A couple months ago I reached what would’ve been my due date if I hadn’t miscarried. It is so hard to be okay when anniversaries of what might have been come up. Be kind to yourself and try to do something that makes you happy. You will get through this. 💜

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Absolutely! It's so tough. You are not alone. I'm surrounded by babies reaching milestones mine should be reaching. I miscarried twins back in '23' when both of my sister-in-laws were a week behind me in their pregnancies. I then went on to miscarry again the month my twins would have been due. My little sister announced her pregnancy the very next day and measured only a few days later then my pregnancy. Fast forward to now, I would have been 9weeks but had an ectopic pregnancy... and guess what? My sister-in-law just announced her 9 week pregnancy. So I understand the pain when special dates come around. It's excruciating! There's nothing we can do other than find a quiet place to cry our eyes out. We then get up, wipe our tears and continue onwards. What else are we to do. I'm so, so, so sorry for your pain!!! I really do hope you get your rainbow baby very soon! All the best.

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I’m 3 weeks away from what would’ve been my due date with my first when I miscarried and I just found out 2 days ago im pregnant so I freak out now every day that I’ll loose this baby too.

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I totally understand how you feel. I had my first miscarriage on Halloween last year and as my would-be-due-date comes up (it was June 25th) I am both depressed and angry and heartbroken and everything in between. My bf and I have been trying for our rainbow and are hopeful this month... currently supposed to be ovulating this week, so hoping for a positive around the time of what would've been my due date. I'd love to say it's my baby in heaven giving me my rainbow. If that makes sense. Sorry for the long comment. I'm with you. I am so so sorry for your loss and pray for your rainbow baby soon as well. Sending well wishes, love, and lots of baby dust.

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Yeah its very hard and no one understands. I miscarried in August 2023 after only two weeks of knowing i was pregnant and my due date was April 12th. Then i found out i was pregnant again that march and i thought it was a sign. Then yet again had another loss and i had started spotting on my birthday. Got confirmation just a few days later. I havent been able to get pregnant since and have now started the iui process but i always get so depressed around April and November and August. A friend of mine ended up having her baby just a day or two before my other due date and it broke my heart

Anyone else have a hard time?

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