Physically aggressive boyfriend

I finally understand it when I would hear other women would say that their boyfriend out of nowhere start being aggressive, it all started with arguments, and than lightly pulling me out the bedroom maybe once or twice to now tossing and pushing me everywhere my wrist hurt from how hard my boyfriend squeezed it,to the hair pulling to the aggressive squeezing of my arm. Wow my boyfriend told me he would stop drinking when we go out because that’s when he get aggressive but it was a lied and I forgave him last time and he promise me that he won’t drink and I told him when we go out let’s not do the clubs let go out to eat or go to a lounge and he said ok but he lied he just wanted me to forgive him but he had zero intention on following through with it. He wanted to go to a club which I told him no but he insisted he had probably 10drinks and some with shots tonight I only had 3 mixed cocktails . Wow when they say take them for who they are it is 100% true I can’t believe his behavior is progressively getting worse and the abuse is getting physical I would have never guess when I first met him . Oh so he is mad because dinner was horrible he was very tipsy and only focus on getting me drunk and kept asking the server to bring me shots which I decline and to me there was no chemistry I was asking/ forcing conversation and than after dinner I wanted to go home but he wanted to go out and I caved in and he promised we will stay at one place but he wanted to go to “check out” 3 other places and throughout the night he was being rude /arrogant to me and strangers and I told him I can’t have sex with him tonight and that’s when he start getting physical, I am a person that if I have sex with you there has to be a emotional connection but he turn it off tonight with his aggression do you know I have sex with him probably 3 times a day and sometimes more depending if he falls asleep or not but the 3 times is not because of me he wakes me up at all odds time of the day and I just have sex with him because that’s what he want for example I had sex with him 3x today one in the morning, 2 in the afternoon it would of been more If we did not have dinner reservations .What would you do if you have no family to go to and your boyfriend pay all the bills and I finally land a job but I start at the end of may and I have zero dollars do I try to fake it and save money or I live in my car the homeless shelters in my area is full and the one I call take family as a first priority?

I am very spiritual and I feel like god is telling me not to hide the abuse because I can’t live like this I’ve been protecting him I never said anything to no one also I believe god gave me this very high paying job so I can leave him but I was hoping to at-least save 3-6months of save paycheck so I’m not living paycheck to paycheck but my boyfriend is making it hard for me.

Update: I’ve read your comments but realistically I can’t live in my car where am I going to shower, brush my teeth and etc and my car is in terrible shape. I just have to play my cards I will live with him and have sex with him and do the traditional stuff and I am going to avoid going out with him because he drink excessively and he get overly critical and get aggressive and that’s the only time it happen . I need to save money for about 3-6 months depending on how long I can tolerate him but I need to be smart.