Boyfriend hate his own race

I can’t believe I am that girl that is dating a black man that hates black women and I am a black women, I blame social media, podcast, and one of his friends he really believe all those negative stereotypes about black women and I am constantly arguing with him about it, it is so draining and frustrating. He was never like this. He always talking about Latina and white women are feminine and they are sweet and etc and black women are aggressive I am exhausted by the constant comparison. His close friend always bashing black women. By the way when my boyfriend was looking to get a green card he tried 4-5 times with different white girl and Latina girl and they all played him badly he spent money on them and got them places for them to not go through with the deal and he told me he was in a deep depression because of it and his friends was saying you have to go to a black girl for green card and he did and that’s why he is here and thriving financially. We was waiting in line for our food and I was staring at the food being cooked in the grill and my boyfriend was like look at me when I talk “ I see what Kevin gates was talking about you need to stare at me the same way that girl look at LeBron James, you are acting like Savannah, white/Latina look at their man when he talk” he brought it up the entire night. I can’t wait to leave him like go be with your type, he said the only reason he approached me because he thought I was “Hispanic”. My next boyfriend I am going to make sure he does not watch podcasts and he love black women I refuse to deal with this again