Am I wrong?

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tell me if I’m bugging or not! 
My man tells me that he’s ganna start playing soccer after work 5 days a week 🤨 meaning he’s ganna start coming home around 8pm while I’m home all day with the baby. Somehow we get to arguing (because where tf are your sacrifices as a FATHER) and I told him to make a bottle for the baby, and once he finishes making the bottle, he literally just tossed it right in between me & the baby so I was pissed cause like, throw something that’s mine, don’t throw your babys bottle 🥴 so now it’s fk all that soccer sh!t, why are you throwing my babies stuff? I just wanna up and leave. Am I wrong? 
My baby is 3 months old & he acts like staying home with her all day is a vacation but HE COULD NEVER

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Sounds like he’s not ready to be a partner or a father.

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5 days a week.. like what? He clearly doesn't want to be a father.. he's avoiding being at home.. also throwing a bottle so close to ur baby is so bad.. he could of hit ur baby.. u may as well leave.. ur doing everything anyways.

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That wouldn’t fly in my house. Our kids and home come before hobbies. Unless the house is spotless, everyone’s fed, and no one has something to go to, we aren’t doing anything outside of the house.

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He's not father material. He can play soccer 1-2 days a week. Him choosing to do 5 days without discussing it with you first, shows how little he cares about his baby and you.

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So he read the post and said that I didn’t give you guys “accurate information”. He said he intends to play about three days a week, not five. Does that change any opinions in here?

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You’re not wrong, he’s being selfish! Are you still living with him and his family?

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Having a newborn at home is not the time to start a daily several hours hobby. It sounds like hes having a hard time adjusting to parenthood (assuming he was a great guy/partner before and hes not just a selfish person in general)

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